Religious Heaven: an intangible concept of bliss at a later time in an exclusive place that MIGHT exist. Always needed and wanted most... by those who can never find it even if thrown into the middle of a garden of Eden.
REAL Heaven: A tangible all inclusive choice we make in our current location, in the present, containing bliss that was actively sought out and openly accepted and never condemned in others. A state of full acceptance and a full embrace of ones own destiny.
These are my definitions for Heaven. They may vary from others... but this is my understanding.... and the choice I see layed out before me... waiting to be made.